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There's A Fine Line Between Fantasy And Reality... I'm Dancing On That Line

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My heart guides me, but my mind always finds me..... "I could be in the street, I could be on a train, Or struck in some doorway down, In the pouring rain, Now there is not one place, That doesn't feel like home...."

Saturday, December 03, 2005

Things Are Looking Up....

After sitting by myself for awhile, I decided to give Bobby a call. I figured, if he could call just to check on me, I could invite him to dinner. Unfortunately, he's been sick, and didn't want to expose everyone, so he asked if we could get together tonight. He asked me on a date. A REAL date. Not just some, "I'm having friends over for dinner, would you like to join us"- but a REAL DATE. I nearly passed out! Of course I accepted. I couldn't believe my luck! Susan and Maria are so excited for me. I guess that's why after I invited them to dinner, Susan ended up cooking most of it. Gourmet Chef, heh. She was just afraid to eat what I'd been cooking after that phone call!

I can't believe he's finally coming around. After close to three months of wishing and hoping, something is finally happening. It's never taken me this long to make a "connection" with a man. Bobby, he's not just any man though. I can tell he's slightly apprehensive about me. I'm sure it's my age. There's quite a few years between us. I'm sure that's crossed his mind on more than one occasion. I might only be 27, but from the life I've lived, I should be much older. It's often been said "age is nothing but a number". On more than one occasion, I've found that to be such a true statement. I've known men Bobby's age who are less mature than 16 year olds, and men my age who are more mature than most 50 year olds. It's a person by person basis.

I know he's a detective, and his first instinct is to keep his guard up. I'm sure he's probably been hurt in the past. He's in his 40's and not married. There's a reason for that. I understand, part of it is his job. Being married to a police officer, much less a detective is hard. I saw that first hand growing up. The patience my mother had when my father had to leave family dinners and functions- the long hours and infrequency of a "normal life". How well I understand. I'm glad at the very least he's giving me a chance. Just wait Bobby Goren, I'm going to change your life...

4 Comments:

Blogger Criminal Minds Fan said...

I bet you will change his life. Hope the date is wonderful. Of course we will want all the details!

10:23 AM  
Blogger ann said...

........ hmmmmmm :o((

11:09 AM  
Blogger Deb Walsh said...

I am so glad he has asked you out you are such a good person and you both deserve a great relationship.
Have a wonderful. time and at the detectives Ball, as well.
:)

1:38 PM  
Blogger Ames said...

Hope the date was spectacular! Details, we want the juicy details!

2:16 AM  

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